Get clarity on how gender and sexuality are expressed through you without sabotage or self-betrayal. Address trauma and shame that creates distortions, and allow for safety to return to the body. Step outside societal pressures and find balance in the masculine and feminine within you, without resenting any aspect of yourself. Melt away the need for external affirmation as you deeply accept yourself.
This remedy covers a broad range of issues, from sexual abuse, gender confusion, as well as gender roles and expectations. Trauma, family culture and society can distort what is actually true and meant for you, and this remedy aims to empower you to truly be who you were created to be. This remedy also seems to be a great "coming of age" support, as teenagers are growing up, bodies are changing, and cultural standards are overwhelming and disorienting. This remedy can help in quieting the noise and affirm one's worth and sense of self.
Ingredients: Vibrational imprint of flowers in spring water (Arum Lily, Easter Lily, Basil, Iceberg Rose, Skullcap, Rosemary, Moonbeam Coreopsis), Brandy
Arum Lily brings support where there is pain surrounding one’s gender or sexual identity. It can heal areas we have rejected about ourselves, bringing balance to both the masculine and feminine qualities within us. Gender and sexuality goes beyond the biological characteristics, and Arum Lily brings reconciliation on the spiritual and emotional levels. There is also the situation of not being in a “traditional” gender role. Arum Lily is a great help in bringing assurance that you belong and are capable in that role, despite family and societal pressures and opinions.
Easter Lily removes trauma locked into the reproductive system that is rooted in sexual abuse and misuse, including generational origins. When the energetic field of the reproductive system is disrupted, it can result in extreme, painful or irregular cycles. Easter Lily has a way of bringing balance to spiritual, emotional and physical aspects of the reproductive organs.
Basil restores the sacredness of sexuality. It brings together the aspects of the physical and the spiritual in an integrated expression. Basil addresses shame and addiction surrounding sex, and uproots beliefs that it is secret and sinful. Once the polarities of holy and human are brought together, the complusion to fall into destructive behavior outside of a safe relationship dissolves.
Iceberg Rose restores a sense of purity and innocence. It heals trauma surrounding sexual abuse, unwanted advances and illicit intention. Like its name implies, it brings warmth where fridgidity and lack of interest is prevalent.
Skullcap encourages self-love and acceptance. It helps those who are hard on themselves and have a harsh inner critic. It brings about sensitivity where there was numbness, and allows you to explore areas of the heart that are hard to accept or access, even the parts you have hated. Skullcap counters the tendency to fall into neglect and teaches you to nurture and forgive yourself. It eases withdrawal symptoms and curbs addictive tendencies, finding better ways of coping with emotional cravings.
Rosemary is for those who feel "checked out", forgetful or distracted. When traumatizing situations happen, it is possible to no longer feel safe to be in your body. Rosemary creates warmth and safety to stay present and grounded, as well as become more aware of the body and its needs. Other indicators for needing Rosemary are feeling cold, especially in the extremities, as well as tendency to be hypoglycemic. Rosemary helps you "re-member", by bringing mental clarity, increasing awareness of your body and reintegrating you into social groups.
Moonbeam Coreopsis is cozy recuperation. It's great for after any type of blow, whether it's physical, emotional or spiritual. It heals the heart on a deep level and wraps like a hug. It seems to resolve heart issues that create physical symptoms in its gentle and subtle way.