Love with no strings attached, but you matter too. Be able to give freely because you are full, not needing to be filled. Maintain autonomy as you come alongside others, and be able to voice your needs more easily because you feel wanted enough to be heard. Step into the light.
Goldenrod helps you stand tall in your individual identity and conviction. It "gives you a backbone" and releases you from peer pressure that can weigh down. Be released from needing the approval of others to affirm worth, while balancing insecurity and pride.
Bleeding Heart is indicated for the broken hearted. Any type of loss, betrayal or hurt can leave us with the feeling of a gaping hole that can't be filled, and we can fall into codependent cycles fueled by neediness by trying to fill that hole. Bleeding heart heals those wounds and releases you to have healthy boundaries with others. It is ideal after a death, betrayal, abuse or after a relationship ends.
Catalpa heals the heart deep and wide. It can reach back into childhood or address the present pertaining to deep hurt, betrayal and abandonment. It reassures you not only have you always been worthy of love, but that there is nothing that can separate you from it.
Chicory is for those who cling so tightly to others that they pull away. It helps those who feel deprived of love, and try to get their needs met by throwing fits or smothering others, hoping for love in return. Chicory fills your cup to overflow, creating security as well as healthy boundaries in relationships.
Malva deals with all aspects of rejection. When we are rejected, we can perceive even the smallest things as a jab of intentional hurt. Malva heals the heart, and removes the lens of rejection so that we can see things for what they really are. Walking in offense causes others to pull away, and self protection from further rejection causes isolation as well. Malva breaks the cycle and instills acceptance deep within. It instills strength to lean into relationship while diffusing paranoid thoughts of not being loved.
Evening Primrose allows you to form deep and meaningful relationships. It addresses deep stress and rejection that was absorbed in utero or early childhood that manifests as emotional coldness and avoidance. Fear of parenthood and commitment are other indicators that Evening Primrose can help. It brings clarity to why you may retreat from relationship and opens the heart to deeper intimacy.
Harebell assures you that you are worthy of love with no strings attached. When you settle into the reality that you are already loved and accepted, you won’t be striving to get your love tank filled, compromising who you are or forcing things to happen in your timing. Love can flow freely to others when you’ve let love flow freely to you.